My dear Readers, my apologies for the delayed posting. I had to finish my term paper for a course I took this summer, the deadline of which is this Wednesday. I still had to re-read and edit it later this evening but I am glad I was able to finish the draft.
Anyway, with my mind still so much focused on it, it gave me an idea of what to tackle on my blog today. I had gone out of idea for a topic is more likely but I always believe in the saying:
“make do with what you have”.
So, why do we do what we do?
Had anyone ever stopped for a moment and asked one’s self that question before they keep on doing whatever interests them at that moment? If you had, had you taken the thought seriously or merely shrugged a shoulder?
Indeed, what’s my point? Why dig into it like a dog with a bone to pick? The point is, most things that we do is just as natural and normal as breathing that we never had to spare a thought onto it. It is because our brain is already programmed to do certain things at a given time, things we usually do by instinct or things we usually do as a routine.
The workings of our brain is that intricate that most of the time we need not question why we do certain things in the manner we do them. So, when does the time it occur to us to ask, why am I doing this?
Would you agree that it is at a time when you feel at a loss, facing a seemingly insurmountable task that you need not do but you feel you must do? When this occurs, don’t you feel like you want to run the other way but you knew it is blocked? It feels like wading in a flood with rain still pouring down on you. You wish to get out of it but no matter where you look, there is just water around you.
Wouldn’t you say it is just all in the mind? Maybe. But then, wouldn’t it be cowardly to think that if we just let things be, it will resolve on its own? Would you be able to sleep soundly with that thought bugging you in the back of your mind that you are supposed to do something but is trying to wiggle your way out of it?
In the end, you will realize that it has taken too much more effort and too many sleepless nights to avoid doing it than to have done it outright.
So, again, why do we do what we do? Because it is what our conscience dictates us to do, or because it is something that must be done.